People will tell you what’s on the outside doesn’t matter, it’s what’s inside that counts. That’s bullshit. What’s outside gets you the interview. After that you can pretty much do whatever because humans are stupid & get attached even if you’re a piece of shit. The instinctual desire for an attractive mate will override a lot too. Just doesn’t look like shit or smell like it & you’re most of the way there. Unless you’re ugly. If you’re just ugly you’re fucked.