People hate gray areas, but in reality things aren’t always cut and dried. Jo often expresses the idea that she lives in the areas between. She may not phrase it n a way that spells it out the way I am, but she does. Ambiguity makes people uncomfortable, but the older I get the more it seems like ambiguity is something everyone has to come to terms with eventually. Some people fight it like mad, others accept it. I do a bit of both, which is basically how I do everything. Whatever works in the moment.